When used correctly, texting can be a powerful tool in helping you get your ex back after a breakup. Sending text messages is private, personal, safe, intimate and simple.
Chances are you and your ex are already very familiar with texting back and forth. Therefore, the idea of being able to push a few buttons and build an emotional relationship with him or her should appeal to you.
Through emotional texting, you can put your heart on the line and tell your ex how you really feel about him. No apologies. Without lies. Dont fight. Simply speaking from the heart to establish the emotional connection necessary to bring them back together.
If you’re a guy reading this, you’re probably already tuning out after hearing the words “emotion” and “speaking from the heart.” This does not come naturally to most men. But it’s probably even more effective for men because most women love it when a guy opens up and says how he really feels.
Keep in mind that these aren’t the types of texts you’ll want to send immediately after a breakup. They should not be used until you have reopened the lines of communication with your ex, established a connection by helping him remember the good times you used to share, validated his feelings, and made him think of you in a positive way. .
Once you’ve completed the steps above and are ready to say what you feel, here are 4 types of text messages you can send to build an emotional relationship with your ex.
1.) Compliment Texts
Compliment texts are exactly what they sound like. They are random compliments you give your ex through the text messages you send them. You shouldn’t give them too much importance. Just let them enter the conversation naturally.
For example, “Your smile caught my eye the first time I saw you. It’s something I’ve always liked about you.”
2.) “What I miss about us” texts
These types of texts are also quite simple. You are simply reminding your ex of what you miss about the relationship.
For example, “One thing I really miss is how you used to hug me so tight whenever I got scared while watching a scary movie. It made me feel so safe.”
3.) Thank you texts
Most of us don’t do a very good job of appreciating our partner in a relationship. With thank you texts you tell your ex what you like and appreciate about him.
For example, “One thing I’ve always loved about you is that you’re willing to drop whatever you’re doing to help anyone in need. You’re a special person and I’m so glad you’re in my life.”
4.) “What I feel for you” texts
These types of texts should be positive and confident and should never be needy. They take some practice to get right, but once you do, they can become an extremely powerful ally in helping you get your ex back.
Here’s an example: “It’s funny, but it still makes my body tingle every time I smell your cologne. It always makes me smile and I feel safe. You will always be important to me.”