So you have a huge crush on someone at school and you’re ready to ask them out, but you’re not sure about doing it because well, “they’re perfect, they probably already have a boyfriend/girlfriend.” Surprisingly, you will discover that many of the people you like are probably not taken or will soon be single. 99.9% of the time the person you like likes you. It is a fact! No, it really is. My teacher said so. Always believe your university professors that’s why they studied for years. Anyway, I thought that I could tell you some things that are quite obvious to my eyes to know if the person you like is in love or not. I know many of you will probably say, “Dude, just ask them!” Unless you are an extremely brave and careless person whose nerves never go away when you see her, go ahead and ask her. Maybe she doesn’t think you’re weird for asking such a private question. Maybe you can use this guide before she actually tells you, “Yes, I have a boyfriend.”
The following applies in the scenario where you talk to your crush and she (or he, but I’m using her) meets you and you talk at work or school etc. frequently.
The panorama
Cell phone obsession:
It’s 2010 and just about every human being has a cell phone these days. Use your cell phone understanding to find out if the person you like is in love. If a person has a boyfriend or girlfriend, they will constantly text her, call her, or keep their phone next to her at all times. Now, yes, for sure the person you are texting can be a friend. There is another way to block your reply. But first, take note:
– Does the person you like send you text messages constantly? Texting too much to the point where he doesn’t even look at you while you’re talking?
– Is your crush always on the phone? Perhaps he is leaving class and immediately picks up his phone and calls someone. Does he pay attention to you or ignore you and press the phone to your ear all the way to his car?
nosy wallpaper
Another way to know if the person you like is to take the wallpaper of his cell phone. Being nosy may not be a good thing, but you don’t have to put your face on his phone to find out! It has to happen: you two are talking and she puts down her phone. If you are close to each other, which you probably will when you talk, you will easily notice it. Just look at it. Don’t look at it! Glazed. At the top you will notice:
A) There is a child your age or a little older who seems
B) There is a boy and her together, hugging or kissing
C) She is with a girl playing hard
D) There’s a picture of her making a fish face or throwing a peace sign
Occasionally, there are other rare photos of members of your family, or perhaps a baby that could be yours or your brother’s. If there is a boy, and he doesn’t seem gay, it will surely be his man. You can usually tell when it’s his boyfriend or just a friend. If she is with another girl and they seem very friendly, then they are friends. If she has a picture of herself, there you have it, she is in love with herself. All together, many have photos of their boyfriends/girlfriends on their cell phone wallpaper. Why wouldn’t they?
listen wisely
It will happen. They are both walking to their cars after class and their phone rings. She answers as you two walk side by side. Stand still and take note.
– Can you hear the voice of the other person on the line? Is she a woman or a man?
– Grab some phrases, what are they talking about? “Dad’s home? I’m on my way.” ~ “Will you pick me up tonight?” or “Tell Jenny not to eat the leftovers!”
– Did he say ‘I love you’ like any other person taken when they hang up the phone with their love?
meet your crush
If it’s a relatively new crush you’re having, it will be easier to get to know the person right away without feeling like you’re reading their diary. Here are some things you can do to start a decent conversation that can lead to more details you didn’t expect to know. Depending on your answers, you’ll also notice a few things in this category.
– If she’s been taken, you’ll know immediately. Most of the time they will mention their boyfriend or girlfriend right away and start a semi-personal conversation. “Once my boyfriend…”
– Does he mention a person a lot?
– Does he talk to you about friends in general? Or maybe he keeps mentioning “this friend” over and over again.
If you get along well enough, you can innocently start a semi-personal conversation by asking opening questions like, “What do you major in?” which more often than not escalates to “Really? So you live nearby?” & then “You graduated from what school?” She pretty much always brings her up to talk about her friends from high school, or how she was on the high school basketball team, etc. etc. Eventually, believe me, she will feel comfortable enough to ask you questions that will allow you to answer them. “What did you do last summer?” – “Last summer I went to Los Angeles with my ex-girlfriend, what did you do?”
How to know if your crush likes you?
Well, this is another topic. Rest assured, your crush doesn’t mind being around you, talking to you, or maybe waiting for you after class to walk you to your car. You can safely say that he likes you ;). If he likes you, he likes you, I don’t know. You’ll have to find out for yourself, friend. The key is to notice! Many times your crush will follow you after class if you don’t expect them.
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