Are you struggling to potty train your toddler? Believe it or not, there is a right way and a wrong way to do everything. Every child is different, so potty training will vary from toddler to toddler. Here are some helpful suggestions to consider at that stage of life when your toddler is potty training.
Probably the biggest and most important aspect of potty training your toddler is recognition and encouragement. Like everything we do in life, it is more beneficial to focus on the positive and not the negative. Some young children will take much longer than others their age; it may even take a year or more to become fully comfortable and toilet trained. As they get closer to perfecting the “art of potty training,” celebrate with them. Some parents find it helpful to put up a chart on the wall and reward their child with a sticker. Accept the fact now that there are going to be accidents. Let them know it’s okay and focus on getting it right next time. If you insist that they just don’t get it, you will prolong the process much longer.
Young children are easily influenced by their surroundings and this includes bathroom etiquette. If they see family members using the bathroom, you can be sure they are watching closely. It’s best if everyone gets involved to help your child too. If they see a sibling following all the right steps, and mom or dad doing the same, it will help them get up to speed faster. If you carefully follow the steps required to use the potty, from start to finish, you will have more success sooner. Model proper potty training using your favorite bear or doll. This includes taking the doll’s pants off, sitting her on the toilet, cleaning her, and dressing her again. Involve them in these steps so they take an active role. Every time they complete all the steps, all the steps, reward them with praise, encouragement, and a sticker or something similar.
As I mentioned earlier, your child’s potty training is going to vary from case to case. Your child may not be ready to train as soon as other toddlers her age. If there’s stress around you—a new baby, changes in living arrangements, or illness—it’s best to wait. You need a stress-free, long enough period of time that can be set aside to train your child effectively. A young child’s attention span is very short and making sure she is focused will help complete the process.