The biggest mistake men make when trying to get their wives interested in hot sex is mindlessly jumping into what they’re trying to accomplish. I mean yeah, they know what their goal it is, but that’s the problem. They’re focused on it like a greyhound chasing a rabbit and are blind to everything else, including the mess they’re making of things!
Hotwiving and what your wife wants from him
The first thing to keep in mind is this its fantasy not hers (if you are a man reading this because your wife has approached YOU to become a Hotwife then you can ignore this…). So if you dive right in with “Hey honey, why don’t you go out and find a lover and blind him in a hotel while I wait for you here at home?“She’s not going to be particularly impressed.
Because the BIG problem here is… it’s all about YOU and what YOU want. You have to think of this as a sale, because that’s really what it is… you trying to sell her on the idea of having sex with other men.
And that in turn means you have to do two things:
- You have to show her that there is something for her.. And just talking about all the hot sex you can have is not going to work with the vast majority of women. Remember that this is YOUR vision of fantasy. You know your wife better than I do, but in general women want more intimacy, love, communication and things like that in their lives. So you have to show her how she’s going to get more of whatever it is that she wants by being a Hotwife (and she remembers that she wants this stuff from YOU because you don’t want her to get deeply emotionally involved with the men she’s having sex with). ).
- You have to be aware and have answers to their objections.. and she will have a batch of these, ranging from “WTF are you ON?“, a “what’s going on U.S?” a “What happens if I get pregnant or catch something?“a”but won’t you be jealous?“, and so.
In other words, you need to do your legwork and have all the information you need at your fingertips. And a word of warning: please keep a clear mind and don’t take what you read on blogs and forums at face value, because it’s mostly made up. truth be told to know it’s not true because it’s too damn Okay to be true, right?
My wife, Josselyn, and I have been in the lifestyle for the last 7 years and aside from a few hiccups, it’s been a lot of fun.
And now we’d like to share our knowledge and experience so you don’t have to make the mistakes we made, because we made them for you! So if you are SICK and TIRED of all the nonsense and hype about Hotwiving on the internet, then you need to get safe, sane and sensible information from a genuine lifestyle partner.