Like any long-term relationship, a marriage changes over time. Most couples go through a few different phases when they are together. There is the initial phase of the honeymoon when they are settling into their respective roles as husband and wife. Followed by the years of raising a family together when time together is often overshadowed by the needs of their children. Later in life, the man and woman reconnect as they wait to retire and share the rest of their lives together. At any time during the course of a marriage, the interest of either party may wane. If you are a wife who now feels abandoned by her husband and you want that to change, you have the ability to make it happen. Learning how to win your husband’s heart again is not as challenging as you think.
Knowing how to win over your husband’s heart the way you did when you were married begins with recognizing the changes in yourself. Naturally, as people mature and grow, they change. You must take stock of how much you have changed since the day you walked down the aisle. Are you less impatient with your husband now than when you first met? Do you push the needs of your husband and the needs of your relationship with him to the background in favor of other things? Or have you stopped thanking and appreciating your husband because you think he already knows how you feel? If you are guilty of any of these things, you need to change your behavior now. Couples may begin to take each other for granted once the novelty of marriage has worn off. Do your best to start treating your husband like you used to. If you can do this, you will also notice a big change in the way he treats you.
It is also very important that you always show your husband that you are still that vibrant, interesting and self-assured woman that he initially fell in love with. Men love dynamic women and that doesn’t change once marriage replaces dating. He wants to be proud of you and all your accomplishments. Don’t lose sight of who you are just because you have become a wife and mother. The more interesting you are as a woman, the more you will captivate your husband.