As men, when we’re in bed with our partner, there are two things we want to happen during sex.
- The ability to last long enough to be sexually satisfied, and
- perhaps most importantly, the ability to fully satisfy your partner.
This is not an easy challenge when you suffer from premature ejaculation, it kills the passion and sexually charged atmosphere between you and your partner faster than a professional hit man can kill his target.
So what we really need is an effective trick or technique that we can use when having sex with our girl to achieve the above two things.
One such way to last longer in bed is by using a sexual position that is highly effective in delaying ejaculation.
If you do your research, you’ll quickly realize that there are literally hundreds of different sexual positions that couples can use while making love. Unfortunately, many of these sexual positions cause us uncontrollable stimulation and make our premature ejaculation even worse.
At the end of the day, we look for positions that are very stimulating for our partner, but much less stimulating, or perhaps less intense for us.
So let’s take a look at some of these positions now.
woman on top
Pretty self explanatory position here. You lie in bed with your penis in the air, and your partner slowly and gently goes down on you. This will give her overall control of penetration during sex, including depth, speed, and angle.
The beauty of this position (aside from the view) is that because your penis is not in such an intensely sensitive position, the stimulation will be much less and will allow you to last longer than you would in missionary position.
doggy style
This has been around for a long time, but is rarely considered a good sexual position for those suffering from premature ejaculation. I can assure you that it is one of the best positions that you and your partner can take advantage of.
Ask your partner to get on their knees and lift their butt. Then you enter from behind and penetrate her from behind.
This may take some practice to get right if you’ve never tried it before, but with practice you’ll both get it right.
With this position, you are in control of the thrust and all aspects of it. This gives you overall control of the speed, depth, and angle of your penetration, and more importantly, gives you much less sensation compared to other positions.