We always think that men are so simple in bed, right? And that the only thing they like is being given blowjobs, fantasizing about a threesome, and that they want sex all the time; but no, the reality is that men also want sex to be good and exciting. Men want “a lady in the street and a monster in bed.” In other words, men want variation; they want their women to be wild at times, someone capable of trying something new and exciting.
Ladies, don’t be afraid to be a freak in bed! It’s a total plus for your relationship. Everything in life is a balance; if you behave well outside the bedroom, if you are a classy lady who knows how to present herself in public, why be afraid of being a sex bomb in bed? It is always necessary to be both, a part of everything. Applying that concept in your life will make you a winner. Be the classy lady and also the naughty one.
Here are some tips to help you figure out what men want in bed.
1 – Be vocal
Men love a woman who can express herself. You can do it however you like: moan, yell, talk dirty, tell him when you like something. They want to know that you are enjoying it. Talking during sex stimulates a man more than you might think. What they see, hear and feel has a psychological effect on their brains. Your words can make your man feel like a powerful, virile macho, and as a bonus, he’ll be more attracted to a sexually uninhibited woman who can express herself freely.
2 – Do something taboo
It is the nature of the human psyche to have some erotic fantasy. We are the product of a society that limits our sexual roles, and sometimes that can lead us to be self-righteous and hypocritical, even though we feel stimulated by our sexual desires.
In the minds of men and women there are always fantasies, and more especially in men. Among the most common are threesomes, anal sex and orgies. But most of the time, men are afraid to suggest them because they don’t want to offend the woman. So if you want to spice things up, talk to her about the taboo fantasy and feel free to do so, if these desires don’t make you feel sinful or wrong.
3 – It’s all about the attitude
Men want to have sex with a woman who is present. That means a woman who is excited to be there. Many women have sex as an obligation, as a favor, or because they want something in return. Ladies, letting a man have sex with you doesn’t mean much to them if they don’t like it. He wants you to enjoy it as much as he does.
4 – Give instructions
Sometimes women are afraid to tell a man what they want in bed, because the man may feel that he is being criticized. But not everything is the same. Many men want a bit of guidance on how to please you. We always want to protect our ego, and pretend that we don’t like something, thinking about what the other partner might think of us, our reputation or many other stupid things. So don’t be afraid to let your preferences be known. If you don’t talk to him, how will he know what you like? Remember this: a woman who knows what she wants becomes more attractive to a man in bed, because she will get a lot of gratification knowing that she is pleasing you. Both will be grateful.
5 – New tricks
Men want a woman who is willing to try new things and explore new sensations in sex. Never assume that giving a man your vagina is enough. Men have many erogenous zones that they want you to touch. For example, the perineum is a very sensitive area in a man. Surprise him by touching or kissing that part, suck on his testicles, masturbate in front of your man, smell him and taste him using oils and flavored lubricants.
Good sex is a very important part of any relationship, and it is more than just a genital act, so be open and able to communicate what you want and what you like with your partner. Doing the same things over and over again can make anything in our lives boring, so be willing to try new things. Expand your concept of sex and allow yourself to enjoy it without prejudice and false moralism.